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Post by Låuŗєn on Aug 24, 2003 10:27:42 GMT -5
I was just wondering, what age should girls start dating? I am only in the 8th grade, but kids my age are dating each other like crazy, and I still havent had a boyfriend. So what age do you think is appropriate?
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Post by Karen on Aug 24, 2003 17:07:05 GMT -5
well, i'm in 9th, and i had my first b/f in 7th... i think most people should wait until they are in high school when they are emotionally ready to deal with that kind of thing.
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Post by Psychicwolf on Aug 25, 2003 11:51:46 GMT -5
i had my first 'b/f' in 7th grade, looking back on that, it was pretty funny, the guy was terrafied of me, oh well, but my first serious b/f was in 9th grade, that was definately different......so i dunno what age you should be cuzz i think the serious ones, start in high school when you are more mature, but i think that dating in junior high is ok too, it's more on personal preference i think -Psychic Wolf
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Post by peachesndcrm on Sept 3, 2003 15:05:27 GMT -5
well im in 11th, and i had about 7 b/f's, i think my first was in like 7th, you really should wait till how old you are, you should wait untill you find the right boy, dont be like me and go out with as many as you can, untill you find one, cause you get hurt like that
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Post by Låuŗєn on Sept 3, 2003 21:24:43 GMT -5
Yeah I have noticed girls as young as my age trying to go out with as many boys as they can. But they always end up broken hearted. I just do'nt want to be like that.
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Post by peachesndcrm on Sept 4, 2003 8:10:10 GMT -5
it's alot worse, when you think you found the right guy, then he really doesnt think you're the right girl, that's really harsh, but i think i found the pervect guy. ;D
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Post by Pixie on Sept 6, 2003 11:57:55 GMT -5
Well I grew up in a very small town, 600 people. I was a tomboy and the guys just thought of me as one of them so I didn't really get a boyfriend until I was 16. I never really did the dating thing. I went with one guy for about 9 months, the next 4 years, the next a few months and then I met the man I married.
One thing I want to say is that most boys expect you to have s*x with them. After all your their girlfriend right? Don't feel preasured. I hate to say it but alot of boys can't handle it and end up breaking up with a girl after wards. Plus it is so dangeruos now a days. If that is all a boy wants from you then he isn't worth your time.
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Post by bubblegirldarko on Oct 11, 2003 9:22:27 GMT -5
it depends on the girl, how matur she is. I was dating at 15 but I had no clue what I was doing I had like 10 different b/f a week!! I really did not get into dating until I was liek 18 when i got peg. But if you are dating make sure you know all of the chioces you have there are sooo may young men out there so dont fall in love too soon..take your time and enjoy your life as a young girl. Make loads of friends and never put your friends last because in the end they are the ones who will be there for you!!!
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Post by Pixie on Oct 11, 2003 12:06:00 GMT -5
I agree, I lost a best friend because of a guy when I was a senor we both liked him, and he picked me. I dated him for 4 years, then had a bad break up, Now I wish I would have stayed friends with her instead, but like they say if you change the past you change the future. If I wouldn't have dated him, I never would have movied to the town where I met my husband, and now wouldn't be happily married and wouldn't have my daughter.
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