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Post by Daemon Rose on Nov 14, 2003 15:04:06 GMT -5
Honestly tell us if you are ready for children. You may ask why did I post this here besides in the poll area and I will say Children is a serious thing. I think I am old enough to have children but I am not ready for them by a long shot. Although my best friend Lance has a beautiful daughter and he is doing well with her and I see alot of me in him I still dont think I am ready to settle down right now.
So do you think that you are ready? If you have children did you think you were ready at the time of conception?
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Post by Sickboy on Nov 14, 2003 15:11:29 GMT -5
no and I doubt if I ever will be...
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Post by Daemon Rose on Nov 14, 2003 15:13:04 GMT -5
I am coming to tha tpart in my life where I feel if I find the right person and we are serious about a child I think I will maybe go ahead and become pregnant. I mean get her pregnant if you didnt know what I meant. Anyways I think age isnt a question its whether your actually ready or not.
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Post by Pixie on Nov 15, 2003 1:17:30 GMT -5
Um, well since I already have one then I guess I would have to say yes. I want another one too.
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Post by Daemon Rose on Nov 15, 2003 11:25:46 GMT -5
Well like I said some people are ready to become fathers or mothers but are they actually ready. I mean I know some people who wouldnt have done so good without their parents support. I mean I would need my mom and dad to be there for me when I have a child...
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Post by Pixie on Nov 15, 2003 12:24:14 GMT -5
I had been married for 3 years when I got pregnant, I also worked in a daycare with the infants so I knew what I was getting into, alot of the younger people that want a baby don't realize how much work a baby is. Having parent support is a great thing.
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Post by Daemon Rose on Nov 15, 2003 12:34:04 GMT -5
When I see Lance which is like everyother weekend his daughter always hangs on me and that makes me happy. he is a awesome father and a great person to hang out with. His daughter, Emily, is the cutest thing in the whole world.
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Post by Mr. Hendrickson™ on Nov 15, 2003 16:27:12 GMT -5
When I see Lance which is like everyother weekend his daughter always hangs on me and that makes me happy. he is a awesome father and a great person to hang out with. His daughter, Emily, is the cutest thing in the whole world. Thanks man that means alot to me. Yeah when we first had Emily we wanted her but we didnt actually know the workt aht went into raising a child. But hey you learn as you progress through life.
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Post by Dale The Great! on Nov 15, 2003 16:29:21 GMT -5
no, im 13 i really wanna have kids when im older though it wud be a great experience
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Post by Robert on Dec 3, 2003 0:42:46 GMT -5
I think age isnt a question its whether your actually ready or not. What if your me? Im only 15, thats young, but if you have a job, and your parents kicked you out, and you have a loving girlfriend that you've been with for a long time, and you feel your ready, then go for it. but as for me, I know I am not ready, I would really like to wait for the right person, I just hope I find that person . Its hard, as I like this girl alot, and she likes me, I would love to go out with her, but she is getting over a breakup or something to do with another guy shes trying to get over, but if we stay together, and we are happy with each other, and we feel we are ready, only then will I ever have a child.
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Post by Mr. Hendrickson™ on Dec 3, 2003 11:03:05 GMT -5
I honestly dont think anyone under the age of 19 should have a child. They dont understand the time and effort you need to put in in the first year of your childs life. From the bottles at one am to the diaper changes tot he crying to everythuing. Its hell. Then you have no life and if you think you do you dont. You wont get no sleep, no sex, no nothing. You got to work tired you come home and tend to your child and sleep for an hour in between bottles and maybe diaper changes. Trust me no 15 year old cna deal with it.
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Post by Creeper on Dec 3, 2003 15:28:14 GMT -5
I wont be ready until I am married and that wont be until im at least 26 or later because I have college to think about and my first serveral years of adulthood
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Post by Mr. Hendrickson™ on Dec 3, 2003 15:31:39 GMT -5
Yes! Think about college first then marriage then a family. Schooling should come fist. Some people like me never thought of that before hand. I wish I had but then again Iw ouldnt have my daughter so I am glad I made the decision I did.
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Post by LostSunrise on Dec 3, 2003 17:44:26 GMT -5
No, I don't want them until I am sure I can support them and give them a life as good as the one my parents gave me. (It'll probably take me until I'm 30 or so...)
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Post by Mr. Hendrickson™ on Dec 4, 2003 18:01:07 GMT -5
I wish I would have waited until I had a steady job, wait I did, and I also wish I had a steady home, which i did. Well what the hell happened to me? Oh yeah I dont know how to strive for the top all I want is the least amount. Man I am lazy.
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